I heard the question and realized I didn’t know the answer. Who are you when nobody needs you? It wasn’t asked in a dramatic moment. It didn’t come wrapped in chaos or crisis. It landed quietly—almost gently—but it stayed. And the longer it lingered, the more uncomfortable I became with the truth: I had no clear answer. For most of my life, my identity has been shaped by usefulness. I’ve been the one people could depend on. The caretaker. The helper. The strong one. The one w

Today was one of those unexpectedly beautiful warm days that makes you stop, breathe, and remember that life still has sweetness tucked into ordinary moments. December has been doing what December does, but today? Today felt like a soft pause. Warm enough for shorts, a T-shirt, and a little sun on my skin — warm enough for my spirit to settle. While I was outside soaking it all in, a butterfly flew so close to my face that I literally felt the air from its wings. And listen…

This book journey hasn’t been easy—setbacks, doubts, and plenty of “Lord, help me” moments—but God has carried me through it all. From unexpected blessings to the love of family and friends, I’m learning to stay the course with faith, gratitude, and a little humor. The journey isn’t over, but I trust the best is yet to come.

“Whew chile…” That’s how most of my stories start. Not just because it’s the name of my book—but because that phrase holds the weight of...